The day-of can be hectic and stressful, but the right venue and planner can help by providing those vital spaces where people can congregate and socialize. It is easy to get lost in the itinerary and the to-do list, but weddings are ultimately about sharing moments with the people you care about. Toby and I decided that the library makes the perfect Man-Cave; fully equipped with Direct TV in an American lounge setting. The Groom and his boys can relax with some beer or martinis while the rest of the house prepares for the big event. Let's face it ladies, a relaxed Groom means you can focus on the day you have always dreamed about and he can appreciate how lucky he is.